I'm 5'9 with a runner's frame. I'm comfortable with the lights on and you seeing all of me, but I'm also OK with lights out to add a sense of mystery; I'm not too shy, nor am I too pushy. I'm able to hold a normal conversation and not bring up sex at all, but I'm also fine talking about sex without blushing. I have manners and respect for others, but my tactfulness has been misconstrued as being shy; this is not the case. If you are interested in finding out more, contact me.