xHamster's College Guide

Dear First Year Students:

We need to have a word with you about sex, and porn. In the past month, weā€™ve seen a dramatic uptick in visits from college towns, as newly minted 18 year olds, liberated from parental monitoring and ready for adulting, log on to our site.

A 67% increase in new visits from Chapel Hill. A 52% increase at State College. Goooo team!

Not so fast.

It turns out that half of you havenā€™t had any formal sex education at all. And the ones who were lucky enough to have someone explain the very basics of anatomy and reproduction? Three-quarters of you received only messages on abstinence. Thatā€™s INSANE.

How the hell are you supposed to understand whatā€™s going on on this site? How can you understand even basic issues like pubic hair and condoms, let alone consent, BDSM and user-uploaded granny videos. And yet, thatā€™s what youā€™re expecting us to teach you. I realize that most of you think you can handle it, that you know plenty about sex from friends, and the internet, and can just Google the rest.

But we have to tell you, you know far less than you need. Imagine if your school district cancelled Driverā€™s Ed, and had you watch The Fast and the Furious instead. Well, weā€™re not giving you the keys just yet.

We know we canā€™t fully stop you ā€” youā€™re Generation VPN, after all, and we believe you have a right to not have to disclose personal information to us. We also know weā€™re not sex educators. (Although, weā€™ve took a stab at it with The Box.)

But weā€™d be remiss if we didnā€™t at least issue some basic guidelines for understanding what youā€™ see here.



Just remember: sex is fun. Sex is exciting. But sex is a skill to learn. All the WikiHows in the world canā€™t teach you to do it well. That takes communication, practice and enthusiastic consent ā€” and conversations with educators.

Unlike your high school, your university is likely filled with resources about sex and sexuality. So before you log-on here again, we want you to go to the University Clinic. Go to The Box. Go to the LGBT Center. Go to Sex Week lectures. Go to Planned Parenthood.

Come back to us when youā€™re ready for a graduate course.

Alex Hawkins
Vice President, xHamster
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Tippniyan
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-Snap-Crotch-Beaver- 2 varsho poorv
dont smoke pot like I did
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dcn00 7 varsho poorv
Very well said
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lynxxHamster
Prti HeavyKing55 : Hi HeavyKing55, please check your PMs.
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HeavyKing55
This is not a thread, this is the xHamster blog, if you prefer :
The face of xHamster and xHamster is a world wide site, not an american matter and if the site has issues I have a few of ways to warn reviewers, administrators and xHamster and I need to do it in a public way, not using private messages and a post like this one is a good place to sjow what a "dot com" site has to do before to talk of education, if the site is not working properly, what do you think about the education of the site owner?
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Discreetmdman 7 varsho poorv
Prti HeavyKing55 : Don't be an ass. This is not the thread for complaints.
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Discreetmdman 7 varsho poorv
Bravo!
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adamwolfehunt
adamwolfehunt 7 varsho poorv
Outstanding - what great advice
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q1was 7 varsho poorv
Thank you for considering the younger generations. So many of them are without proper guidance these days.
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HeavyKing55
Please, vice CEO, think to the xHmaster issues instead to waste your time about unuseful matters.
You have to manage a site, not teen agers!
Got it?
Too many issues about the Beta version, even endless loops, do you know what's an "endless loop" in a software?
I'm tired to see yu're going elsewhere instead to stay around here!
You are the "first one" of a community!
The community doesn't care if the young people has a good sex education, the community cares if their profiles are full of "deleted", without a good reason.
Do you know?
xHamster is known as the "deleted site", cause "deleted" appears more times than the common logo!
Where are you living?
On Jupiter?

Last new :
the quick edit function on the profiles "about me" is not working properly, you have to use "profile/edit" to save some kind of updates, as the internal links of xHamster.

What do you think?
Perhaps some teen agers are not able to manage a cunt or a dick but a lot of them are able to manage HTML5!!!!!
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st_john_green
st_john_green 7 varsho poorv
This is true and should be part of the education in the American school systems in various versions at different levels. This should never ever be distorted into a scare tactic because huh let's see now that doesn't work and never will. Thank you for sharing this.
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Snatchmeup
Snatchmeup 7 varsho poorv
PG versions of this should be introduced to middle school and high school freshman to junior students. Adult versions of this information must be introduced to all high school seniors and college students.
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nadia877
nadia877 7 varsho poorv
This is fantastic... it should be included in freshman orientation at every university in the country (and reviewed with the sophomores, juniors and seniors)! Nicely done!
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menapup
menapup 7 varsho poorv
Hey tarek what advice do you need
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tarek_pahepak2010
tarek_pahepak2010 7 varsho poorv
nice i am +21 any girl need me for Advice i am here for you :smile:
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ricedude 7 varsho poorv
Wow, first honest Porn website
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joymegadeth 7 varsho poorv
That's why I'd say xHamster is the best porn site ever! Miles ahead compared to others!
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CB1000R
awesome.
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hye-in
hye-in 7 varsho poorv
Great advice :smile:
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CuriousGenius 7 varsho poorv
Well, as your target audience, I must say "I'm here because real life doesn't seem likely for me any time soon". However I still appreciate the attempt. Your website is a place for smut and nothing else, but I am proud that you don't treat it that way. Thanks for the info, I hope I find an occasion to use it.
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smoknstroker
smoknstroker 7 varsho poorv
Short, well written and to the point. Hopefully this advice finds its way to the targeted audience.
I'm 60 years old and am still learning about sexuality.
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xx1236
xx1236 7 varsho poorv
Hopefully this is read by many but , not likely. They're to busy watching the fake stuff,KEEP TRYING.!!
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JBBarnes
JBBarnes 7 varsho poorv
When a porn site is better at sex ed than the school systems of most first world countries.
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Touluose
Touluose 7 varsho poorv
Great message! We can help if it is in Spanish.

Buena iniciativa, nosotros podemos ayudar si es en espaƱol.
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acdude
acdude 7 varsho poorv
Thanks for enlightening the next generation..
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